Honouring Compassion in Bereavement Care The Story Behind the Elaine Thorp Award
The recent announcement of Janine Dougan as the 2025 recipient of the Elaine Thorp Award for Bereavement Care shines a much-needed light on the profound impact of compassionate support for families facing pregnancy loss or the death of a baby.
Janine, a retired midwife and health visitor from Northern Ireland, embodies the dedication and kindness that can help guide families through their darkest hours. It reminds us that, even in tragedy, skilled care can foster connection, healing, and hope. It’s a reminder of the importance of bereavement care, and that compassionate care is not just a service—it’s a lifeline. And as Janine Dougan’s story shows, it’s the kindness and dedication of professionals that can help families find light even in their darkest moments.
The Heart of Bereavement Care
Every year, thousands of families across the UK experience the devastating loss of a pregnancy or baby. In these moments, the quality of care they receive can make a significant difference to their wellbeing and long-term recovery. Compassionate professionals provide not just practical support, but a listening ear, a gentle presence, and a deep respect for the grief that families endure.
“Losing a child is unbearable, no matter at what stage. Providing good bereavement care is essential so parents know that they are supported and cared for and that their baby mattered and their wishes were respected. It is about being their partner in this process and being present for them.”
Janine Dougan
Janine’s work, affectionately described as that of a ‘fairy godmother’, demonstrates how health professionals can be a steady source of comfort. Not only in the immediate aftermath of loss, but as families navigate the complex journey towards hope and, perhaps, future pregnancies.
Why Recognising Compassion Matters
The Elaine Thorp Award was established by Sands, a UK pregnancy and baby loss charity. The award celebrates the exceptional work of midwives, nurses, and healthcare professionals who provide outstanding bereavement care. The award’s judging panel is made up of healthcare professionals and volunteers from across the UK, highlighting the importance of peer recognition in a field where emotional support is paramount.
Recognising such dedication sends a powerful message: that bereavement care is valued, that every family’s experience matters, and that compassionate support can help families feel less alone. It also inspires others in the field to strive for excellence, ensuring that bereavement care remains at the heart of healthcare culture.
Steps Forward in Bereavement Care
Janine’s story is just one example of how compassionate care can transform grief into a journey of healing. Families supported by skilled professionals often report feeling more empowered to grieve, remember their baby, and consider the future with renewed hope. For those who go on to have more children, ongoing support from health visitors like Janine can make an enormous difference, as these professionals often know the family’s story and can offer tailored care.
Caring for bereaved families is not just about addressing immediate needs. It’s about helping families feel seen, heard, and supported every step of the way. This can lead to improved mental health, stronger family bonds, and a greater sense of community.
Resources and Support
If you or someone you know is affected by pregnancy or baby loss, Forelight can help you find information, support, and services. Our resources pages offer guidance on bereavement care, mental health resources, and support networks. You can also explore our directory listings to connect with local professionals and services dedicated to wellbeing and recovery.
For more information about bereavement care and the Elaine Thorp Award, visit Sands’ official page for inspiration and nomination details. For further support and resources, please visit the Forelight directory of bereavement and grief support services.